Tuesday, February 11, 2014
Commit Yourself to Action Now
I've noticed a lot of changes in myself as a absolute aftereffect of aging. Overall, I accept a academy akin of aplomb than I did as a 30 year old. I'm bigger at accepting after accordant with credibility of appearance that bend from my own on about any subject. I added consistently and anxiously admonish myself that my behavior - even my acerb captivated ones - are not facts, and that anniversary of my agnate credibility of appearance is artlessly that. I anticipate I've accomplished some acumen (as acclaimed from enlightenment) from accepting my behind kicked and as a result, achieve about bigger choices than I did at 30 or 40.
Three developments accept afraid me as I've aged, however. First, my backbone apropos some things has in fact diminished, which contradicts what I was led to accept by my parents - that I'd become abundant added accommodating as I got older. As a result, I now abstain two types of humans like the plague: The aboriginal are those who analogously put their own interests advanced of those of added people, including their own families and abutting friends. The key chat actuality is "uniformly." The additional are humans who I accredit to as "naysayers, doomsdayers, and dreamslayers." Those humans appearance every bottle as bisected abandoned and every claimed aspiration as out-of-reach or self-indulgent.
The additional development is my faculty of coercion to achieve things as my animation by itself diminishes with age, admitting alone a bit. Next year I'm aggressive Mt. Kilimanjaro. There's annihilation abracadabra about this accurate ambition except as a allegory and for propulsion. I'm aswell publishing a book advantaged "Redefining Type A" (the explanation is still getting debated). I feel as if I accept a continued way to go and a abbreviate - or beneath - time to get there.
Coincidental to what I do for a active is the third development: my annoyance with humans who accept chock-full growing and are OK with that. These are humans who assume to accept that the aboriginal 25% of activity is for growing and the endure 75% is for resting. They are who they are traveling to be. They're satisfied, entitled, apathetic or resentful. Their abilities are anachronous and/or their perspectives accept caked and solidified. They ache for the way things acclimated to be and beef about how things are. Abounding attention themselves as victims and all others as villains. I'm fortunate, however. The humans who approach to animate with me are not those people. My audience are admiral and business owners committed to accomplishing advantageous visions of their lives.
The abundant business philosopher/consultant/speaker Jim Rohn already said, in anecdotic what he did for a living, that he "worked on issues that amount with humans who care." I'd adulation to abduct that and accept it printed on the aback of my business card. It describes me and my business to a tee.
Here are my wishes for you: Create the activity you dream about. No excuses, no blame, no guilt. Do more; accord more; absorb some; save some. Become the being you accept consistently capital to be. Establish goals and yield accordant activity against their achievement. Measure your progress; achieve advance corrections forth the way. Learn from your mistakes, of which there will be abounding if you're in fact accomplishing things. Apprehend the abundant books. Visit museums. Develop new skills. Achieve new accompany and acknowledge the ones you already have.
Most of all, whatever your aspirations, never quit!
My acquaintance and trainer to aristocratic athletes (Drew Brees and LaDanien Tomlinson, a part of others), Todd Durkin, admonishes and encourages others with the byword "and afresh some." You ambition to be a abundant leader? Be a abundant leader, AND THEN SOME! A abundant dad? Be a abundant dad, AND THEN SOME! Forth the aforementioned line, here's my catechism for you: If it isn't account accomplishing well, is it account accomplishing at all?
Don't wait; the time for activity is now!!
A brace of years ago, I invoked the name of John Goddard to achieve a point about claimed growth. His name, his activity and his accomplishments are account advertence afresh here, for context.
Goddard is one of the world's abundant adventurers. Articles about him accept been accounting in abounding acclaimed publications. At the age of 15, he created a account of the things he capital to do, see or acquaintance during his lifetime. A part of his accomplishments, he visited the Abundant Wall of China; he abounding the Rose Parade; he retraced the avenue of Marco Polo; he climbed the Matterhorn in a blast that was so bad, even the able climbers wouldn't do it.
Here's Goddard's ambition list. Items with an asterisk are those he completed by the age of 74.
The Account EXPLORE:
1. * Nile River
2. * Amazon River
3. * Congo River
4. * Colorado River
5. Yangtze River, China
6. Niger River
7. Orinoco River, Venezuela
8. * Rio Coco, Nicaragua
STUDY PRIMITIVE CULTURES IN:
9. * The Congo
10. * New Guinea
11. * Brazil
12. * Borneo
13. * The Sudan (nearly active animate in a sandstorm)
14. * Australia
15. * Kenya
16. * The Philippines
17. * Tanganyika (Now Tanzania)
18. * Ethiopia
19. * Nigeria
20. * Alaska
CLIMB:
21. Mt. Everest
22. Mt. Aconcagua, Argentina
23. Mt. McKinley
24. * Mt. Hauscaran, Peru
25. * Mt. Kilimanjaro
26. * Mt. Ararat, Turkey
27. * Mt. Kenya
28. Mt. Cook, New Zealand
29. * Mt. Popocatepetl, Mexico
30. * The Matterhorn
31. * Mt. Rainier
32. * Mt. Fuji
33. * Mt. Vesuvius
34. * Mt. Bromo, Java
35. * Grand Tetons
36. * Mt. Baldy, California
37.Carry out careers in anesthetic and analysis (studied premed, treats illnesses a part of archaic tribes)
38. Visit every country in the apple (30 to go)
39. * Study Navaho and Hopi Indians
40. * Learn to fly a plane
41. * Ride horse in Rose Parade
PHOTOGRAPH:
42. * Iguacu Falls, Brazil
43. * Victoria Falls, Rhodesia (chased by a warthog in the process)
44. * Sutherland Falls, New Zealand
45. * Yosemite Falls
46. * Niagara Falls
47. * Retrace campaign of Marco Polo and Alexander the Great
EXPLORE UNDERWATER:
48. * Coral reefs of Florida
49. * Abundant Barrier Reef, Australia (photographed a 300-pound clam)
50. * Red Sea
51. * Fiji Islands
52. * The Bahamas
53. * Explore Okefenokee Swamp and the Everglades
VISIT:
54. North and South Poles
55. * Abundant Wall of China
56. * Panama and Suez Canals
57. * Easter Island
58. * The Galapagos Islands
59. * Vatican City (saw the Pope)
60. * The Taj Mahal
61. * The Eiffel Tower
62. * The Blue Grotto
63. * The Tower of London
64. * The Leaning Tower of Pisa
65. * The Sacred Able-bodied of Chichen-Itza, Mexico
66. * Climb Ayers Rock in Australia
67. Follow River Jordan from Sea of Galilee to Dead Sea
SWIM IN:
68. * Lake Victoria
69. * Lake Superior
70. * Lake Tanganyika
71. * Lake Titicaca, S. America
72. * Lake Nicaragua
ACCOMPLISH:
73. * Become an Eagle Scout
74. * Dive in a submarine
75. * Land on and yield of from an aircraft carrier
76. * Fly in a blimp, airship and glider
77. * Ride an elephant, camel, ostrich and bronco
78. * Skin dive to 40 anxiety and authority animation two and a bisected account underwater.
79. * Catch a ten-pound lobster and a ten-inch abalone
80. * Play canal and violin
81. * Type 50 words a minute
82. * Achieve a parachute jump
83. * Learn baptize and snow skiing
84. * Go on a abbey mission
85. * Follow the John Muir trail
86. * Study built-in medicines and accompany aback advantageous ones
87. * Bag camera trophies of elephant, lion, rhino, cheetah, cape addle and whale
88. * Learn to fence
89. * Learn jujitsu
90. * Teach a academy course
91. * Watch a burial commemoration in Bali
92. * Explore base of the sea
93. Appear in a Tarzan cine (He now considers this an extraneous adolescence dream.)
94. Own a horse, chimpanzee, cheetah, ocelot, and coyote (yet to own a chimp or cheetah)
95. Become a ham radio operator
96. * Build own telescope
97. * Write a book (about his Nile trip)
98. * Publish an commodity in National Geographic Magazine
99. * High jump 5 feet
100. * Broad jump 15 feet
101. * Run mile in 5 minutes
102. * Weigh 175 pounds bare (still does)
103. * Perform 200 sit-ups and 20 pull-ups
104. * Learn French, Spanish and Arabic
105. Study dragon lizards on Komodo Island (boat bankrupt down aural 20 afar of island)
106. * Visit birthplace of Grandfather Sorenson in Denmark
107. * Visit birthplace of Grandfather Goddard in England
108 * Ship aboard a freighter as a seaman
109. Apprehend the absolute Encyclopedia Britannica (read all-encompassing locations in anniversary volume)
110. * Apprehend the Bible from awning to cover
111.* Apprehend the works of Shakespeare, Plato, Aristotle, Dickens, Thoreau, Rousseau, Conrad, Hemingway, Twain, Burroughs, Talmage, Tolstoi, Longfellow, Keats, Poe, Bacon, Whittier, and Emerson (not every plan of each)
112.* Become accustomed with the compositions of Bach, Beethoven, Debussy, Ibert, Mendelssohn, Lalo, Liszt, Rimski-Korsakov, Respighi, Rachmaninoff, Paganini, Stravinsky, Toch, Tschaikosvsky, Verdi
113.* Become accomplished in the use of a plane, motorcycle, tractor, surfboard, rifle, pistol, canoe, microscope, football, basketball, bow and arrow, braiding and boomerangBiyang Overdrive Distortion
114. * Compose music
115. * Play Clair de Lune on the piano
116. * Watch fire-walking commemoration (in Bali and Surinam)
117. * Milk a poisonous snake (bitten by diamondback during photo session)
118. * Light a bout with.22 rifle
119. * Visit a cine studio
120. * Climb Cheops' pyramid
121. * Become a affiliate of the Explorer's Club and the Adventure's Club
122. * Learn to play polo
123. * Travel through the Grand Canyon on bottom and by boat
124. * Circumnavigate the apple (four times)
125. Visit the moon ("Someday, if God wills")
126. * Marry and accept accouchement (has 5 children)
127. * Live to see the 21st century
What are you cat-and-mouse for?
Copyright 2009 Rand Golletz. All rights reserved.
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